I don’t have an excuse. Posting, even in speculation, about why Pat Bostick went home was just wrong, regardless of my intent.
Of course, that isn’t really good enough. I owe an explanation of how I got to that point.
When I saw the articles and the statement from Coach Wannstedt about Pat Bostick leaving for a while, I focused on the last sentence:
“No timetable has been set for his return. we are leaving that judgment to Pat and intend to do everything we can to be supportive of him and his family.”
I took that to mean it was a legitimate family/personal issue.
I was also curious as to what it was. I went to the Lancaster newspaper to see if there was anything happening and saw the article. Being from the Lebanon area (about 15 miles away), I know Lititz does not have a particularly large population and a simple white pages search yielded a single “Bostick.” The two things mean nothing. It did make me wonder and worry some more.
Worry enough, that I went to the message boards to see if there was anything else out there. I started reading the worry and speculation that Bostick was leaving the program for whatever reason. Oh, woe unto Pitt. Why do these things keep happening to “us?” And I got pissed.
Pissed that other Pitt fans were flying off the handle and apparently ready to turn on the kid without another thought. Pissed at an overreaction. Pissed because I thought I knew better.
The smart thing would have been to just walk away from the keyboard for a while. Cool down. Do something else.
Instead I stupidly added my own speculation. I did it because in that space of time, I presumed myself to be some sort of superior fan. I made one of the biggest mistake a fan can do — see himself as some sort of representative of the team and/or “true fans.” Some sort of protector of the interests of the team and players. That’s when fans do the stupid crap that gives fandom a bad name. It’s not being biased that gets fans in trouble. It’s when the fans think they are part of the team or representing them directly.
I knew shortly after I posted it, that I shouldn’t have. I knew better, and I still screwed up. Regardless of my intent, I was wrong. I’m not going to delete or edit out what I wrote. Scrubbing a post doesn’t change it, and I have to own my mistake. All I’m going to do is add a link to this post.
I’m sorry. I’m sorry to Pat Bostick and Bostick family for publishing my own speculation about what is a private and personal issue. I’m sorry to Pitt and Pitt Athletic Department for pretending to be some sort of rep. And I’m sorry to everyone who reads this for crossing the line.
I just heard on Mark Madden that he left because of “panic attacks”. UGH.
That is the least you could do. One more thing: I know the family, due to living in that area. And, they read all of these sites, and they read your site.
Just please go away.
That said, Steve is just being silly at this point. Being slightly angry that someone speculated and it could have effected another family is one thing – calling for a blog to be taken down due to it – well, you’d have to take down every piece of media to stop that kind of speculation, from CNN on down.
TAKE YOUR OWN FUCKING ADVICE. YOU’RE STILL READING IT. SHUT THE FUCK UP, AND LEAVE ALREADY.
“Just please go away.”
Oh, the fucking irony. go here http://www.blackshoediaries.com
I’m sure they’ll welcome you and your senseless ramblings. I’m sure I speak for the great majority here when i say shut the fuck up, stop posting, and leave. Please. You’re just being a troll and beating a dead horse.
We will all miss you, really. Chas, you really should refund Steve’s money. Oh wait, everyone enjoys this site for free. If you don’t like it, don’t visit it, no one gives a shi*.
Thanks for the site, Chas and Dennis. Those of us far away from Pgh really appreciate it.
Otherwise i’d go get all my pitt info from http://pittsburghpanthers.cstv.com and espn.go.com
I didn’t even think an apology is necessary, but if it made him feel better, so be it. Now all you trolls go back to your farms in crappy valley.
Looks like our QB is going to be named Billy.
(oh shit! speculation! get the shovels and pitchforks out!)
I am guessing Steve is gay.
Thanks
I have to agree with a couple of post’s. If you are leaving then why are you still posting. Chas explained his side, enough for me! It’s a free world. If you don’t like this post, then go somewhere else.
I hope PAT is OK and returns soon!
Looking forward to having you back Pat.
Like I said in the last thread, keep your head up and keep up the good work. You put a lot of your time into this blog and you don’t see any reward. I have never shown my appriciation before, but I will be donating a case of beer to the tailgate fund.
Praying for Pat, whatever the scenario is.
And as for professionalism: IT’S A BLOG! There are no professional standards!
To the Bostick family—my support and heartfelt best wishes go to you, no matter what the reason. Pat is a sterling young man, and I wish him the best in all he does.
From out here in Oregon, my best to PITT people and fans!
Hail to PITT,
-al-
I had A-Fib for years and it was hell to deal with. But I made it OK after I figured out it would not kill me.
We can only speculate what goes on, even if they tell us, unless we had all the same issues and none of us has (walked in those same shoes).
Lets leave this and focus on camp for now. Maybe, if it turns out Bostic takes a RS year, it would just be normal, and best for all, and might be the best thing for all. There i go speculating…
Chas, nice apology, but I think you are little too close to the subject. I personally wasn’t offended in the least about your speculation, and I think you’ve over-reacted a bit with the apology. That said, I really enjoy your blog.
Panic attacks are a serious medical condition — it is unfair to play it off like it’s just nerves. I can tell you from experience, though, that panic attacks can easily be treated and controlled and in no way will they disable someone from coming through in pressure situations. We should not prejudge Bostick because of this medical condition — I guarentee you he will meet all expectations placed upon him regardless of what happens this week. And if he and his family read this blog as many have mentioned today, we should wish him well and hope for a speedy return to the team where his teamates will welcome him back with open arms – and the rest of the PITT family should as well.
Mark Madden said on his radio show today that he heard from a “Pitt insider” of his that Bostick was having panic attacks. Easy to throw something like that out there because 1) it’s difficult to refute and 2) the coaching staff will never confirm it to the public. Madden’s rumor was almost negated by ESPN Radio’s Joe Destio on Madden’s program when Destio reported that Wannstedt addressed the Bostick situation later this afternoon. While I can’t remember exactly how Destio put it, he did mention that Wannstedt made it a point to say that it wasn’t a matter related to his family, nor was it really a “football issue”. He also told Destio he was very optimistic that Bostick will be back. Not sure what that all means, but I’m not sure it was anything related to his performance on the field or his projected playing time, as so many were willing to allude right away on the afternoon talk show circuit today.
Hence, taking something like this “panic attack” rumor as truth at this point is jumping to conclusions just a bit too early, yes?
I’m not sure why he went home, but let’s allow the situation to bear itself out before attacking the character of this kid, eh? Bostick was an early verbal, one of the first players to turn in his signed LOI, one of the kids who enrolled in classes in late spring-early summer so he could get here early and one of the recruits who spoke glowingly and excitedly of the school every time he was asked. I’m sure everything will work out fine for Bostick and for the program.
I’m willing to bet hundreds, even thousands of kids in the past have done similar things; unfortunately, in this era when there are cameras everywhere and journalistic integrity ends when the 11:30 Cockran Showdown begins, everything is noticed and blown out of proportion.
You are way off base with this, and should shut up until you understand what people are talking about.
Seriously though, it’s a medical condition; not indicative of a lack guts/heart/poise, etc.
However, panic attacks may be disabling at first, but it is not a serious medical illness. Approximately 6 million adults suffer from panic attacks. The kid was right down the street from one of the best medical centers in the world. Why go home to get treatment? His parents can’t take a couple of days off to come spend with him? Let’s not make it out like the kid has Lou Gehrig’s or something. A panic attack is a routine medical illness and any 1st year resident physician can spot one.
The fact remains no fan can truly say they want their quarterback of the future to suffer from panic attacks. I hope the kid gets the treatment he needs, but this is a disappointing turn of events. We can be sympathetic to the kid and be disappointed at the same time.
I apologize if I offended any one and look forward Mr. Bostick returning to the Panthers.
Anyway – you are right that it is disappointing in the football sense, and seems like just another in a long line of our continuing setbacks.
WE ARE..
LET’S GO MOUNTAINEERS!!!!
WE ARE..
i dont even want to think of what is going to be said when you roll into morgantown with this kid.
ugly.
BTW your site made deadspin, so congrats!
Go back to your caves/huts/traliers, trolls.
i almost forgot…YOU ARE….overrated. 12-0 bitches. Come talk shit when you beat us in either sport.
You know what your sister and a cinder block have in common? They both have two large holes and get laid by Mexicans.
See you in December.
Pretty good “quips” about West Virginia…and pretty unoriginal I might add. Face the facts pal, the glory days of Johnny Majors, Jackie Sherrill, and Foge Fazio are OVER buddy. Dorsett is gone pal. There’s no Danny boy back under center…and that ‘roid using NFL “bust-o-rama” Hugh Greene is long gone. By the way, the latter is THE most overrated player in college football history. WVU OWNS Pitt…and have for quite some time. Pornstache is an embarassment, and you’re stuck with him. Enjoy that “Pornstache 15 Year Plan” that been so successful in Chicago and Miami. This year’s game with Pitt is gonna be a beatdown of epic proportions. By the way, you ought to be smooching are WVU asses for collectively SAVING the Big East after the beatdown of Georgia in the Sugar Bowl a few years back. You welcome, you ungreatful piece of crap. Prediction for 2007…WVU-52, Pitt-16.
Good thing for WVU that it rules, I guess, since grammar and spelling clearly aren’t its strong points. And it apparently likes a good rim job. Why come to us, did your sister turn you down again?
What in the blue hell is up with the newest Pitt logo??? Looks more like a hyena to me. Is it part of “Pornstache’s 15 Year Plan” to change up logos every few years??? Man you guys are sorry…almost as sorry as your home schedule. Grambling? Navy? C’mon Stu.
You go to a fucking prison which develops criminals – i’m not sure what is funnier – that you pay to get dumber, or that you inbred hicks are actually able to become any less intelligent. Keep bringing in criminals which beat strippers and try to kill people – your program is a fucking disgrace. Not that you’d notice, considering that what you’re surrounded by is worse.
I like how 2 years is a 15 year plan.
Good job in the NIT this year. Good luck gettin’ a job in the mine after you “gradamacate.” Unless you “done gradamacated already” – in that case, congratulations on the double-wide – i’m sure its nice.
The only facination I have, is watching WVU literally pound Pitt on ESPN every year. That’s good stuff. I like how you PA idiots call us “rednecks” over and over. Again, original you Unoriginal Fuck. Do you realize PA is only about 10-15 miles from our border? Are the states really that much different? Of course, other than our state school is a perennial football powerhouse and yours is, well, a perennial joke, other than our highways are actually pretty clear of roadwork and huge potholes (something that hasn’t happend in PA since the Nixon era), and other than millions of opposing fans don’t say that our school “eats shit”.
Enjoy Pornstache there Stew…and the hilarious coaching job he’s doing. You’re 2 years into his 15 Year Plan you Blogtard.
In closing, I think I can speak for my WVU comrades here when I say that the “only double-wide” we’ve been “on” lately is your lovely sister mountain_man spoke so nice about previously. She certainly “chugs” the WV jizz down nicely Stew.
Do your bosses know that you are trolling? I generally find government agencies aren’t wild about using their computers for personal stuff.
You are banned.
Why are you posting on this site? I guess because you can’t go trolling on any U of Michigan blogs. Come back and post when you actually win a game against Michigan. Whoops… see you next decade… if ever…
As joyously heard in Ann Arbor on 9/22… AGAIN…
“We OWN…. Penn State!” and “You ARE… 0-8” (now nine)
Jo-Fer-9 ! … and still counting since 1996….